Showing posts with label Ellen Goodman. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ellen Goodman. Show all posts

Monday, January 19, 2009

The Joy of Playing Tag in the Pumasphere

Heidi Li tagged me.


In the run up to the historic Obama inauguration, Heidi Li tagged Katalusis and thus invited me to participate in a Pumasphere diversion suggesting that we write six things about ourselves and tag six other bloggers to do the same. I accepted the invitation, motivated as Heidi was by the opportunity to help build community and camaraderie.


  1. Just before I launched Katalusis in August 2007, I read a column by Ellen Goodman titled E-Male in which she commented on the “new boys” network in the blogosphere. Goodman wrote:



‘“Is it harassment? Women have been talking about this since blogger Kathy Sierra was threatened with a picture of her next to a noose. Convention organizer Gina Cooper has two e-mail addresses, just one carrying her female name. Only "Gina" gets the hate e-mail with sexual threats and such comments as: "I'm going to hunt you down." Who knows how many women are scared silent.”’


I felt intimidated as I first posted at Katalusis and afraid to reveal very much about myself. I gradually overcame my fear, though, and today one of the greatest rewards I find in blogging is the opportunity to connect personally with like-minded readers and bloggers. Incidentally, the recent launching of Daily Puma has been a real gift.



  1. Formerly a lifetime member of the Democratic Party, I re-registered as an independent last summer to protest what I perceived as a fraudulent primary and rigged convention. I’ve had no regrets.


  1. The first principle of the Unitarian-Universalist Association, of which I am a member, asserts the inherent worth and dignity of every person. Throughout my adult life, I’ve stood for equal rights for all people. Therefore, I remain deeply offended by the blatantly sexist bias of the liberal media in the MSM’s good old boys network and the blogosphere’s new boys network exposed during the 2008 primaries and general election. As someone else pointed out, “Racism may have been taboo, but it was open season for denigrating women.”



  1. Influenced by Carl Jung, process theology, and the writings of Vietnamese Buddhist Thich Nhat Hanh I’ve long considered each human life a journey toward wholeness, and it’s been a joy to discover that as I grow older I continue to learn and grow.


  1. My life is enriched by much valued relationships with family, friends, neighbors, and members of my online community.


  1. And speaking of community, wherever I’ve lived, I’ve always made friends with those people with whom I do business, including the employees at my dental office, bank branch, beauty shop, supermarket, and the place I take my car for repairs.


For example, I’ve been seeing the same dentist for about seven years. I normally go in for a check up every six months and despite the obvious distractions, I look forward to our lively political discussions. He actually got it when I explained my annoyance with the sexist behavior of Democratic Party leaders and their media allies throughout the Democratic primary!


It's my pleasure to invite the following blogs to participate in the Pumasphere's tag game:

Puma for Life, Cinie’s World, realbarackobama, guerillawomen, women real and purposeful, TominPaine



Friday, December 5, 2008

Hillary Clinton: Talented, Competent, Richly Complex Woman or Sybil Incarnate?

Hillary Clinton speaks in Beijiing on Women and Health in Sept. 1995. AP

Since the day it was first rumored that Obama was naming Hillary Clinton as secretary of state the media has focused on all the possible reasons for her selection other than her obviously outstanding qualifications. Is anyone really surprised the reasons reporters and pundits alike have offered were dug up from the extensive files of Hillary-bashing maintained for decades by both the left and the right? Keep in mind that sexism and misogyny are held in common across the entire political spectrum.

In her op ed this Friday morning,
Ellen Goodman looks to the right to single out Rush Limbaugh’s explanation for Obama’s choice of Clinton for the top diplomatic post in his cabinet. Goodman writes:

“Of course, it turned out that Rush was being his old cynical self. He wasn't praising Hillary's talent, but Obama's cunning at keeping his enemy close.

“’So it went with much of the analysis before and after Clinton was chosen for the premier Cabinet post. The political story line asked if she would be a ‘teammate’ or a ‘rival’ in the ‘Team of Rivals’ metaphor du jour. And was she close enough to the president to be his international right hand?”’

Goodman doesn’t explore further the variously skewed political analyses, but chooses instead to examine the pseudo-psychological interpretation recurring from the days when it first surfaced in the Democratic primary. Recall how bewildered the provincial members of our media became when they first encountered a political candidate – a woman at that – who presented more than a one-dimensional robotic personality out on the campaign trail: Omg. Hillary is an intelligent, complex woman who has filled a variety of roles in her lifetime. How can we effectively demean her? Why, of course, we can mock and ridicule her as Sybil-like in her complexity.

But back to Goodman’s op-ed:

“’The psychological story line asked, however, whether we were getting yet another new Hillary. A National Review blogger described her as an ‘enigma who is best seen in stages; as a series of parts, not a whole.’

“A series of parts? Not a whole? Hillary, lawyer, wife, mother, first lady, senator, presidential candidate, secretary of state.

‘“I was reminded of Mary Catherine Bateson's classic book, ‘Composing a Life,’ which describes life as the art of improvisation.

‘“Life is not a straight and narrow march of achievement, but a quilt made of many parts. Reading the trajectory of many women's lives with their interruptions and conflicts, twists and turns, Bateson saw creativity, not confusion. ‘These are not lives without commitment, but rather lives in which commitments are continually refocused and redefined.’”

Goodman describes the world Clinton faces:

“Still, the new secretary of state will be operating in a world in which three-fifths of the world's poorest people are women and girls. Seventy percent of the children not in school are girls. Half a million women die every year in childbirth. One in three women will suffer from the pandemic of violence - rape, honor killings, genital mutilation. But only 16 percent of legislators are women, and less than 3 percent of the people at the table when peace treaties are signed are female.”

Remember the 13-year-old Somali rape victim who turned to the authorities for help and instead was stoned to death? It was Sen. Hillary Clinton who wrote a letter of protest to the United Nations.

Goodman continues:

‘“What we are learning around the world is that if women are healthy and educated, their families will flourish,’ Clinton said in Beijing. ‘If women are free from violence, their families will flourish. If women have a chance to work and earn as full and equal partners in society, their families will flourish. And when families flourish, communities and nations do as well.’

“Part of a life? Or a whole life composed and recomposed? Well, Hillary regarded Eleanor Roosevelt as a role model. Mrs. Roosevelt's second or third or perhaps fourth act was to get the world to agree to the first Universal Declaration of Human Rights. That was adopted exactly 60 years ago this month. Now it's Hillary Clinton's improvisational turn.”

And despite the inevitable creepy sexist assaults from both the extreme left and right of her own nation, Clinton will take her improvisational turn, and the world will be a better place for her efforts.

Friday, October 31, 2008

Happy Halloween: Fear-Mongering from the Left and the Right and a Liberal’s Broomstick for Sarah Palin

Photo by V. Bergman

Ellen Goodman takes note in her column today that we’re celebrating Halloween this Friday, just five days before the 2008 presidential election. She writes:

“HAVE YOU NOTICED that the spookiest colors of the season are not orange and black but red and blue? As Halloween slips into Election Day, the race for the White House has scared more grown-ups than any trip to the haunted house.”

Goodman continues:

“With all the infighting in the coven around the maverick and the fair maiden, it's tempting to call the McCain campaign the Gang That Couldn't Fly a Broomstick Straight.

“But the striking thing is not how the Republicans are trying to scare undecided voters. It's how spooked the most committed Democrats are.”

I’ve been a fan of Goodman for years, frequently welcoming her usually wise and supportive words to women fighting the never-ending battle against sexism and misogyny in our culture. But her comparison of the McCain camp to a witch’s coven unforgivably names Sarah Palin a witch. Thus Goodman has allied herself with the media en masse that launched its misogynist witch hunt the day the Alaska governor first set foot on the national stage.

And speaking of fear-mongering, I’ll mention here the continuous liberal rant against the McCain-Palin ticket that a GOP victory in 2008 guarantees the immediate overthrow of Rove v. Wade. The illogic of this charge is well articulated in a recent post by Marc Rubin along with a list of other fears the Obama camp has been using in its campaign to spook the electorate.

Some of us don’t spook that easily, whether the fear-mongering is coming from the Left or the Right. But for those Democrats quaking in their boots at the prospect of yet another defeat - despite the party’s obvious advantages this time around – my experience last night indicates some of their nervousness is warranted.

When the phone rang, I turned the volume down on the news program I was watching to hear the caller identify herself as a McCain supporter. A recent defector from the Democratic Party, I was momentarily caught off guard by this unexpected call from the GOP. Recovering myself, I explained that due to Obama’s and the DNC’s passive response to the sexist trashing of Hillary Clinton in the primary and the subsequent sexist assault on Sarah Palin in the general election campaign, I had decided to vote “present” in November.

Turns out my caller was also a disaffected Hillary Clinton supporter with whom I commiserated for a few minutes; it’s no wonder the Democrats are running scared.

Tuesday, October 16, 2007

Fallout From the Language of Hate



The above photo is from the 2002 Juneteeth Celebration, Minneapolis, Minn.

My concern for the harmful effects of negative stereotypes is rooted in my own life experience. I’m from a large displaced Appalachian family that moved to rural northwestern Ohio shortly before I was born, the 10th of 11 children.

We were sharecroppers in my early childhood, and the family income never rose above the subsistence level.

Bearing the double burden of poverty and our Appalachian heritage, my brothers and sisters and I were often ridiculed at school for our shabby clothes and hill country speech.

Decades later, after graduating in 1990 from United Theological Seminary in the Twin Cities, I enrolled in the Appalachian Ministries Educational Program at Berea College in Kentucky, not too far from Magoffin County, the place my parents had once called home. That two-month summer program was my first visit to Appalachia.

In one of my classes, Dr. Helen Lewis, known as the mother of Appalachian studies, explained how the media has perpetuated negative stereotypes of mountain people. The comic strip, Lil Abner, and the TV programs, The Beverly Hillbillies and Hee Haw, were offered as contemporary examples.

By then the people of Appalachia had begun the process of rejecting the images imposed on them by others and were creating their own images. Listen to mountain poet, Jim Wayne Miller:

You’ve heard the prayer that goes:
Help us to see ourselves as others see us.
Buddy, that’s not the prayer we want to pray.
I believe we want to pray:
Lord, help us to see ourselves – and no more.
Or maybe: Help us to see ourselves,
Help us to be ourselves,
Help us to free ourselves
From seeing ourselves
As others see us.

It’s been awhile since I’ve experienced regional or class discrimination, but launching my blog this past August reminded me with a jolt that our nation still excludes groups of people from full participation in society on the basis of such factors as age, gender, race, national origin, religion, and sexual preference.

I’ve heard the Internet described more than once over the years as an open sewer; and for what it's worth, I’ve had Google’s safe search on since the first time I dialed up.

With little experience in the outer limits of cyberspace, I was already nervous about staking a claim on the Web even before reading Ellen Goodman’s timely column on the risks involved.

Goodman marveled that a convention of progressive political bloggers the previous week had attracted seven out of the eight Democratic candidates. But what she really wanted to talk about were reported incidents of harassment of female bloggers, who remain a minority in the blogosphere.

Citing an ABC interview, Goodman quoted progressive blogger Markos Moulitsas: "I learned to talk the way I do in the US Army. And we don't mince words. In politics, I don't see it any different. I see it as a battlefield."

Goodman reported that another panelist, the American Prospect's Garance Franke-Ruta, had this to say: "If you're an angry man you're righteous. If you're an angry woman, you're crazy or a bitch."

Goodman continued, “Women have been talking about this since blogger Kathy Sierra was threatened with a picture of her next to a noose. Convention organizer Gina Cooper has two e-mail addresses, just one carrying her female name. Only ‘Gina’ gets the hate e-mail with sexual threats and such comments as: "I'm going to hunt you down."

“Who knows,” Goodman wondered, “how many women are scared silent.”

The noose symbolism has caught on with the hate-mongering crowd. Just ask Dr. Madonna G. Constantine, a professor of psychology and education at Columbia University’s Teachers College. Dr. Constantine specializes in the study of how race and racial prejudice can affect clinical and educational interactions.

Quoted in a New York Times article, Dr. Constantine said she remained mystified over who could be responsible for leaving a noose dangling on her office door at Teachers College this week.

The same article mentioned a separate case in which an “anti-Semitic smear” had been found the day before in a bathroom in a campus building.

And this past Sunday, a suspected copycat incident was reported in which a noose was found outside a post office near ground zero.

As far as I know, none of the above has yet been described as a legitimate expression of free speech. You’ll recall that famed First Amendment lawyer Martin Garbus defended Don Imus after CBS fired the talk show host for describing the Rutgers women's basketball team on the air as "nappy-headed hos.”

Just before his dismissal, Imus had reportedly signed a five-year $40 million contract to continue his nationally syndicated radio program.

Now here’s the shocker: The New York Times recently announced that Citadel Broadcasting Corporation, owner of ABC Radio Networks, has been negotiating with Imus about a possible return to radio.

Blogging for the Huffington Post, Carol Jenkins reported reaction to Imus’s possible resurrection: “Women we worked with earlier this spring to address this situation were appalled that, just weeks after the U.S. House of Representatives hosted a hearing titled ‘From Imus to Industry: The Business of Stereotypes and Degrading Images,’ Citadel and ABC would be considering providing a new platform to Imus.”

From the first, Imus deflected criticism of his offensive comments about the Rutgers team by pointing his critics toward the rap industry. Jim Abrams of the Associated Press reported two rappers present at the House hearing took opposite sides on the need for hip-hop artists to clean up the sexist and violent language from their works:

“Former gangsta rapper Master P apologized to all the women out there and said he is now committed to producing clean lyrics. He said the angry music of his past came from seeing relatives and friends shot and killed.”

Master P added that he didn’t want his own children to listen to his music, "so if I can do anything to change this, I'm going to take a stand and do that."

Rapper and record producer Levell Crump protested: "I'm like Stephen King: horror music is what I do. Change the situation in my neighborhood and maybe I'll get better.”

Abrams noted the two rappers were joined by music industry executives and scholars, who disagreed over who was to blame for sexist and degrading language in hip-hop music but were united in opposing government censorship as a solution.

Focusing on the problems in the black culture might not be all bad, according to Thomas Chatterton Williams, a graduate student in the Cultural Reporting and Criticism program at New York University.

Williams argues in the Washington Post that hip-hop culture is not black culture; it’s black street culture. He says, “Like neurotics obsessed with amputating their own healthy limbs, middle-class blacks concerned with ‘keeping it real’ are engaging in gratuitously self-destructive and violently masochistic behavior.”

“Sociologists have a term for this pathological facet of black life.” Williams continues. ‘It's called "cool-pose culture.’ Whatever the nomenclature, ‘cool pose’ or keeping it real or something else entirely, this peculiar aspect of the contemporary black experience -- the inverted-pyramid hierarchy of values stemming from the glorification of lower-class reality in the hip-hop era -- has quietly taken the place of white racism as the most formidable obstacle to success and equality in the black middle classes.”

Williams concludes: “Until black culture as a whole is effectively disentangled from the python-grip of hip-hop, and by extension the street, we are not going to see any real progress.”

Williams raises some good questions, but let’s be clear: his critique in no way justifies white male Don Imus mimicking phrases from hip hop to slur a women’s college basketball team.

Responding to controversies stirred up by talk radio in New Jersey, Assemblyman Wilfredo Caraballo shakes his head at the whole phenomenon.

“What puzzles me,” Caraballo said, “is the number of people who defend the racism, misogyny, and other indecencies spouted in hip hop lyrics, gangsta rap, and radio trash talk. I’ve given up trying to fathom people who actually find entertainment value in listening to a Don Imus or Rush Limbaugh.”

A key insight we’ve forgotten from the 1960s and the 1970s is that language shapes our thoughts, and thoughts inform our behavior. Remember when we promoted inclusive language, even in God talk?

In recent years, inclusive language has been pushed aside in favor of increasingly sexist, degrading, and violent verbal assaults.

Not surprisingly, the FBI recently reported the number of violent crimes in the United States rose for a second straight year in 2006, marking the first sustained increase in homicides, robberies and other serious offenses since the early 1990s.

I won’t argue the coarsening of our language is the only factor in the nation’s recent rise in violent crimes, but I’m betting it’s had an impact. In her column mentioned earlier, Ellen Goodman wondered how many women in the blogosphere had been silenced by hate-mongers.

We could ask the same question about all those in our country who are routinely subjected to slurs or threats in the blogosphere, the rap industry, trash talk radio, or even more frightening — in their own neighborhoods or workplaces.

I’m not among those scared silent, but in launching my blog last August, I initially avoided providing any more information about myself than required, and I didn’t post my picture until weeks later.

I’ve gradually gotten braver, though, and I’ve become increasingly confident in expressing my thoughts and ideas. I’m especially grateful to those who have submitted thoughtful and encouraging comments.

Let’s hope the day will come when no American will have to overcome fear before starting a blog or otherwise claiming the right to participate on an equal basis in a democratic society.

Note: Today's post is an edited version of a presentation I gave this past Sunday at Groveland Unitarian-Universalist Fellowship. Groveland meets in the St. Paul Area Council of Churches Building across the street from Macalaster College. For more information, go to GrovelandUU.org.